The social media is real time entertainment. Recently I
found my friends sharing links about” which state boy’s tend NOT to be a
perfect groom” :O . Hilarious content,
specially the one I read about Bengali guys! Eh I admit some of its albeit true
and some highly spiced up. This left me wondering about my newly found groom. Out of d million
hiccups I was having regarding tying the knot this small thingy too got me
thinking. Of course I didn’t sit down to do a SWOT analysis of marrying a NON-
Bong guy! :P but yes you know the fairer sex thinks a lot. :P
So after brainstorming it boiled down to the following:
Pros: (being more than 100% optimistic): merits over a bong
dulha!
1. Festivals: The more the merrier! Newer ones to be added
to both of our calendars!
Neat division of leaves - Durga Puja (DP) at my place n
Diwali at his! Unlike for a bong groom where your dp days need to be shared
between sasural n maika,or need to sacrificed overall.
2. Food: yup I get to explore wider varieties. Sindhi
cuisine awaits me! Wont have to be bored of having macchi-bhaat everyday! PS:
but I need my weekly dose of “Maach n Maangsho” :P
3. Language-I get to abuse him during fights using my fierce
“bangla”- “ekdom nyaka chele” P. hope he doesn’t reply in sindhi to those.
Well, this upper hand incentive exists
till the time he doesn’t understand all bangle words!
4. Mamata didi-wont b
our only/main topic of discussion! :p
5. Entertainment: Wider spread both in linguistic and rhythm. Dance no longer remains a taboo. From young to old everyones a dancaholic on the new side at all occasions !! I never managed to bear punjabi songs earlier. I wonder now how i get those bhangra moves timed ! :D. So i get to enjoy the relaxed serene rabindra sangeet moments as well as the vivacious dhol beats and "Lare -lappa songs" to drop dead dancing.
6. Scientific Basis: Wider gene pool for the offsprings :P
7. & finally the Wedding function-2 styles. I get to wear variety of bridal attire :D. Different bridal looks, more clothes, more fashion hence more SHOPPPING! :P
etc etc.
Cons: Are you klidding!! I shouldnt even be thinking of them at this stage unless i wannabe a runaway bride! :P & ofc the fact exists that "Love is blind"
Summing up i guess in totality it is a deal worthy to try out! ;) Keeping fingers crossed & let the journey begin! Amen ;)
PS: This post had been written back in February 2014. But time crunch kept me away from updating it.
Its only for generating slight humor and not hurting any identity/religious/political sentiment in any way.
